About Me

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Its pretty simple .. im outgoing, loving, intelligent, driven, understanding, craZy, determined, creative, dependable,trustworthy, a leader,and a believer! I am a college graduate with 2 degrees in nursing as well as my nursing license. Simply trying to find a job so I can begin to write the next chapter in my life!

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Friends..hmmmm

So I can admit that in my 22 yrs of life I have been through a shitload of different friends. We have fallen off for a variety of different reasons, some within my control and others beyond it. I would like to say I'm a good friend especially as I have gotten and realized what a true/good friend even is. I'm not perfect as no one is. However, I like to give my all to my friendships as I do in my romantic relationship. Nothing irks me more, though, than when people take my friendship for granted or my kindness is not reciprocated. Right now, Im satisfied with my circle of friends! I have my girls and lil sis, my baby, my bro, and 2 other man friends that I can really depend on and my family of course. I appreciate them sooo much.  I made it known to them the other day we may not talk everyday but they are stuck with me. I'm tired of rotating through friends. If someone comes along and offers friendship maybe once I start my career or something like that, yes I will be open to it but I am not going out seeking it.
I think anyone in my age bracket should really be surrounding themselves with people who are similar to them. I want to be around people who are curious about the world, intrigued by travel, and about their money and career. I need people who will help to lift me up not bring me down. I need people who match my drive and determination. Positivity is now my middle name so I don't have time for the negativity or the bullshit.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Distance and Time


So a popular topic these days is long distance relationships. Can they really work?? Having been in one for FOUR AND A HALF YEARS now I am going to say YES. Are they easy? HELL NO! But if you want it to work you will do everything in your control to see that it does. It takes patience, dedication, trust, flexibility, understanding, and most importantly LOVE! I definitely understand how people cannot handle long distance relationships but if you love something enough you'll fight for it!